The answer…. They not thinking of you at all. We are a selfish species – we think of ourselves and not of others. Just look at Toiletpaper-gate! It’s part of the genetics that have helped us survive. The only time people think about you is when you affect them – which ultimately is still them … Read moreWhat do people think of you?
When you are asked to do something by your employer; say yes. Not because you have time – say yes but ask which of the projects you should push out or client deliverables you should put on hold to do what they require. This way you are showing them you are willing but that it … Read moreAlways say yes!
We are so busy being busy that we become mechanical. It’s time to disconnect from the machine and be more human again. We need to remember that emotions are the core of humanity- we love, we cry, we get angry we hate and most importantly of all we forgive. What you need to do today … Read moreSelfless actions
A realization that will help you understand dealing with people is that everything that bothers you with how a person behaves or responds is actually on you! You see, people can only do or be what they are capable of. If you have an expectation or desire as to how they should behave this is … Read morePeople are the best they can be.
Laughter is the best medicine! There he goes with the clichés again. But maybe it’s true? We live in an over-serious time. Everyone’s scared of saying something or doing something or even suggesting something as there could be ramifications. It’s time to lighten up. Everyone enjoys a good laugh and yes it has been medically … Read moreWe need to laugh a bit more.
We all have them. The to do list. The problem is that we keep adding more than we check off. Adding something to a to do list doesn’t get it done. Actually it probably stresses us out even more as we look at it and go “ Nah – I’ll wait till later or tomorrow … Read moreTo die list
We all experience pain. Some physical. Some emotional. Some bearable and others send us to the doctor. Today I’m talking about the comfortable pain. Yes. That’s not a typo. Are you feeling pain but have made piece with it and learned to live with it? This is not now a medical blog. This is still … Read moreHow is the pain?
We all know people that are smart or smarter than us. But do we know why we think they are smart? Is it because they tell you they are or because you have seen first hand that they are? It’s simple – taking advice is good, taking advice blindly, not so good. Some people can … Read moreBut he is smart!
You don’t? Good then I am doing something right. In this current world we spend hours trying to let people know who we are. Posting every meal we have on Facebook or telling everyone where we are going and who we going with on Instagram. Everyone is trying to get their place in the sun. … Read moreDo you know who I am?
How many time is the answer staring you in the face? More often than you think. Not to go down the clichè route but generally we are so busy doing what we do for our clients that we “dont have time” to do our own … Bollocks. If you are an architect your offices should … Read moreOverlooking the obvious